The Single Gourmet brings singles of all ages together …
May 2008
The idea of breaking bread with friends is as old as human history so it’s no surprise that the concept of Single Gourmet attracted Barry Adelson over 20 years ago.
He’s been successfully running the dining club for singles in South Florida ever since. He explains, “Our objective is to get single people together in a no hassle environment that is completely different from the bar scene, singles dances and internet dating services.
Adelson says, “We sponsor at least one dinner event every week, as well as occasional wine tasting’s, cultural events, plays, travel and more spread throughout the month. Every member receives a calendar of events each month.”

Typical of the restaurants offered are ones that have won the National Academy of Hospitality Sciences – Five Star Diamond Award and The De Rona Award which are only given to the outstanding restaurants. Four and five course meals are served, usually with wine.
Adelson estimates “Anywhere from 40 to 140 members attend each event which allows us to get a group price rate. Cost varies from place to place but usually runs between $45. to $59. and that includes tax and tip. We usually sit at round tables of 10, and we group our members according to age and interest. It works out amazingly well.”
Asked why people join, Adelson says, “The reasons are many. We are all single. Many of our members love to dine in fine restaurants but are reluctant to do so alone. Others are looking to network in business. Still others are looking for love, new friends and finally just a change of scenery, conversation and faces.”
With a smile he adds, There have been romances, and over the years I have been to quite a few weddings. Where new friends choose to take a relationship is up to them, not us. We are strictly arranging a lovely dinner out.”
Pausing for a moment, Adelson said, “It’s also true that we do meet a need, especially for people who find themselves suddenly single because of a death, divorce or relocation. Several of our members were transferred here and were already members elsewhere. They know from experience that this works. Single Gourmet offers a safe, supervised setting to expand members’ social lives and make new friends.”
Frank minutello has been a member of Single Gourmet for over 2 1/2 years. He says, “I’m a chef who almost never misses a dinner. I enjoy the varied menu of foods and people. I’ve met doctors, lawyers, teachers, insurance brokers, business owners, tech people and realtors. Recently at a dinner in Coral Springs, I ate well and danced all night. There was a good piano player / singer who played a lot of good dance music so many of us had fun dancing after dinner as well.”
A long time member, Barbara Tanzer calls Single Gourmet “a great place to network and make new friends. I met one of my closest friends at a dinner many years ago. Another friend of ours picked up a new client at last week’s dinner out. It’s a great club for friendships, business and yes, even love.”
Adelson says, “We offer a car service for members who do not like to drive at night. Another plus is our link to 27 other Single Gourmet areas across the U.S. and Canada. They extend privileges to our members when they travel, as we do for theirs.
For more information about The Single Gourmet, please call 954-723-9608 (Broward County Chapter), 561-276-2595 (Palm Beach County Chapter) or 305-371-8717 (Miami-Dade County Chapter).